Boudoir portraits are timeless, sexy, fun, and totally not for you, right? WRONG!
Let me ask you a question….
When was the last time you did something that was TRULY just for you?
Sadly, most of us can't remember, OR it has been way too long. So let's change that… let's do something that is entirely about YOU!
I know what you are going to say…
- I need to lose weight first
- I am not photogenic enough
- It's selfish to spend time and money on myself
Well, let's start by breaking down a few false beliefs and misconceptions about boudoir photography.
Misconceptions
Many women are worried that they won't look or feel their best during a boudoir session or worry that they won't know how to pose. Let's be honest most of us are not full-time Victoria's Secret models, but I know how to pose you like one! The only thing you need to worry about is leaving your worries behind.
Another (unfortunately common) concern is that you don't have the body for sexy photos. Stop that thought before you finish it! Everybody is gorgeous. My years of pose coaching various sizes of beautiful goddesses have taught me what works for every shape, size, and height out there. My job as a bombshell boudoir photographer and makeup artist is to make sure you feel as beautiful on the outside as you are on the inside, and I am pretty damn good at it.
Boudoir sessions are all about comfort and tranquility, so it is important to me that you wear what you're comfortable in. Despite what you may have heard, you don't have to be nude to be sexy, and I encourage you to wear what you feel best in. If that means going au natural, that's wonderful! If that means your favorite sweater and a cute pair of shorts or undies, that's wonderful too!
A boudoir session is a powerful experience that every woman deserves to have.
Four Reasons You Deserve to Embrace the Beautiful Woman You Are
1. Fall in Love with Your Own Beauty and Challenge Your Self Perception
As women, we are our own harshest critics. We constantly put ourselves down over our perceived physical flaws and imperfections. We compare ourselves to the women we see on social media and in the gym. Even with the social movement toward loving our bodies and feeling comfortable in your skin, it's hard to silence the voice in your head that says, "I wish I could look like her." or "You're not good enough."
Contrary to what society tells us to believe, your body is beautiful the way it is! YES, exactly the way it is at this very moment! You are good enough just the way you are!
You are perfect, flawless, and vivacious! Boudoir photography is a chance to let that light shine and teach that little voice in your head to just to shut up! When you do a boudoir photoshoot, you get to own and show off every perfect curve and line of your body and see the beauty you possess. It's genuinely self-rewarding and a chance to fall deeper in love with the magnificent woman you are, gain much-needed confidence, and feel like the bombshell you are!
2. Shift Your Focus and Get Pampered
I firmly believe that women, as a whole, rarely do something solely for themselves. Even if we do occasionally sneak away for an hour for a hair or nail appointment, we often end up feeling guilty about it. I'm not sure where this particular trait originates in women. Still, collectively we tend to put everyone else (husbands, friends, kids, co-workers, and even the FedEx guy) in front of our own needs and ambitions. You do everything for everyone else all year long. Whether you're a mother, significant other, or a female entrepreneur growing her career, you spend a lot of time putting yourself aside.
A boudoir photoshoot is more than taking beautiful photos – it's a luxurious experience that you'll never forget. From getting your makeup done to enjoying a relaxing environment solely dedicated to serving you, it's hours you get all to yourself to be.
3. Push Your Boundaries (Safely and Positively)
For many women, posing semi-clothed in front of a camera is a terrifying thought. I realize that nerves and wariness may get in the way. A good boudoir company and photographer should make you feel comfortable and confident even when you are shaking in your stilettos! Besides, facing a fear can be a life-changing experience.
Boudoir sessions are for working professionals, soccer moms, curvy gals, thin gals, cancer survivors, women who "always wanted to do this" but thought they "never could."
Think you have to lose weight first? You don't! Posing and wardrobe are essential for showing off your favorite features in the most remarkable ways. We can do more with posing and lighting than you would think.
4. Express Your Unique Intimate Beauty
Everyone has their "thing." That one thing that makes you more than unique, it makes you – You! My mission at Runamuk Photography is to celebrate the things that make you the beautiful work of art that you were created to be. No matter what stage of life, whatever size, whatever you want to express; I want to help you capture and see your true beauty. We believe that every woman needs a boudoir session because every woman deserves to feel confident, sexy, and truly beautiful.
Boudoir portraits are great to do any time of the year! They make the perfect gift for your husband-to-be on your wedding day, serve as a reminder of what a gorgeous woman you are on your 20th anniversary, celebrating a milestone like celebrating a fitness goal or for a self-confidence boost, or YOUR birthday!
They are a fun way to spend an afternoon– whatever the occasion, no reason is a bad reason to feel beautiful! A boudoir shoot is excellent to do any time of year!
Every woman deserves to feel incredibly stunning and endlessly attractive, and what better way than to experience just that by spending a few hours getting dolled up and doted on – and it doesn't have to be only one time. Some of my clients have a session every year to celebrate their journey.
Are you ready to step outside your comfort zone and do something amazing for yourself?!?